After all these years as a wedding speaker and marriage counselor, I have noticed that here (in Western culture) the wedding night has completely lost its meaning. And this is actually a real shame because our grandparents were each really looking forward to this part of the wedding. Do you want your wedding to be truly unforgettable? How about no sex until your wedding night? The anticipation of the wedding event is increased a thousandfold. The couple should look forward to this day holistically, with body and mind.

Sexuality - Intimacy

In a time where sex is modeled without responsibility, all physical and mental intimacy is lost. But in marriage, physical and spiritual love come together because you take on the greatest possible responsibility. Wife and husband learn to love, respect and honor each other with all the consequences. This is how sex becomes “love” again and your own children are joyfully called into this world. Through self-control and self-discipline, one's family is built on responsibility and not on a short-term pleasure principle.

No Sex until the Wedding Night

Every beginning is difficult, but over time abstinence creates a common and strong will. The center of the family is slowly but surely emerging, as the future wife and future husband work together.

Abstinence

Marriage and family is a holy sacrament. In a godless and fatherless time, we are often aimless and divided. Give our fathers the courage to willingly fulfill their fatherly calling. They should see an image of the dear Mother of God in every woman and mother in order to treat them with reverence and chivalry. Bless the faithfulness, bless the worries, bless the journey that fathers and mothers make together! It is often difficult for parents to have the courage to have a child. Let them say a bold “yes”! Do not let their good will weaken, do not let their joy in sacrifice grow cold, and send them the happiness of domestic peace. (prayer book)

The center of the family