Meaning of Wedding Rings – Responsibility – Symbol of Freedom and the will to grow together!
What is the meaning of wedding rings? The wedding rings symbolize a chain. You chain yourself together. When you marry, you choose voluntarily that you no longer have a choice. It's only when you have no choice anymore that you have to give everything (psychologically) you have. And even a little bit more. In this way you can become more than you already are and live out your own and common potential in marriage. Protecting each other's backs under all circumstances in order to fight together against the chaos of life and death.
Freedom
Freedom does not mean simply doing what you want (chaos), but rather taking on the greatest possible responsibility.
Public
With the wearing of the wedding rings, the public is informed that there is now a clear outside and inside of the family. The heart of the family is private.
Wedding Rings - Family
If you are convinced of the faith in your family, you may suddenly be able to resolve your doubts in life. Furthermore, if you have a determined will and really encourage genuine understanding, then you will taste and affirm this level directly for yourself. This is the place for the true spouse. There would be no other priorities. For this reason it is called the sudden awakening and also said:
By the good motive of believing in the family, all the virtues and merits of the parents will agree with yours without the slightest difference.
At last you will reach and grow into the ultimate and true belief in family itself.
Wedding Rings remind us to break out of dark habits
From the beginning to this day, ordinary people have wandered in five realms. Hell, beast, beast, man and heaven (psychological states) during the time of the coming and going of birth have firmly attached themselves to the form of "I". And so have self-nature formed through deception and habitual darkness. Although it has been recognized that our self-nature is originally empty and calm, it is extremely difficult to break the old habit immediately.
Therefore, when confronted with progressive and regressive situations, anger, joy, and right-wrong will arise and disappear at random. So the gross and delicate confusions are not different. But if not re-examined with wisdom, how can one possibly remove the usual darkness and attain great tranquility in family life? (Bodhidharma)