Your Marriage is a Holy Covenant – Sacrament – The highest way of the family is not difficult if only you stop choosing!
What does it mean to marry and enter into marriage? Marriage is a sacred covenant, one becomes one. One sacrifices one's ignorance and willing blindness in favor of a long-term goal; the greatest possible responsibility.
The highest path of family is not difficult if you just stop choosing. Therefore, we choose not to have a choice anymore and thus chain ourselves together (wedding rings).
Love and hate transformed, everything is open and clear. But the slightest deviation brings a rupture like between heaven and earth. If your family is to reveal itself to you, put dislike and fondness aside. The conflict between likes and dislikes is a disease of the mind. If this deep truth is not understood, you try in vain to calm your thoughts.
The path is perfect like empty space, without lack and without abundance, brimming with potential. It is only when you choose and reject that it is lost. Do not pursue outward appearances, nor remain in the experience of emptiness. Remain calm in the family, and all confusion will go away by itself. When you stop family work and return to rest, the effort itself is just work again.
How will you ever experience the one if you remain entangled in this duality? Become the eye in the storm. If you don't get into the core of the family, you won't feel at home in any area. To despise existence is to lose existence. To follow emptiness is to turn against emptiness. The more words and thoughts, the farther from reality. Cut off words and thoughts and IT permeates everything. When you return to the root, you grasp the truth. If you indulge in appearances, you miss the essence of family.
Your Marriage is a Sacrament
The sacrament of marriage is the sacred bond between a man and a woman. Mutual recognition creates life in love (children).
Initiation into Parenthood
The phoenix must rise from the ashes to grow into their new role as father or mother.